Nellie McClung, In Times Like These (U of
Toronto Press, 1972) 23-24.
Fallacy of Women's Indirect Influence
"Women have not only been knitting—they have been
thinking. Among other things they have thought about the
German women, those faithful, patient, home loving, obedient
women, who never interfere in public affairs, nor question
man's ruling. The Kaiser says women have only two concerns
in life, cooking and children, and the German women have
accepted his dictum. They are good cooks and faithful nurses
to their children.
According to the theories of the world, the sons of such
women should be the gentlest men on earth. Their home has
been so sacred, and well-kept; their mother has been so
gentle, patient and unworldly—she has never lowered the
standard of her womanhood by asking to vote, or to mingle in
the 'hurly burly' of politics. She has been humble, and
loving, and always hoped for the best.
According to the theories of the world, the gentle sons
of gentle mothers will respect and reverence all womankind
everywhere. Yet, we know that in the invasion of Belgium,
the German soldiers made a shield of Belgian women and
children in front of their army; no child was too young, no
woman too old, to escape their cruelty; no mother's prayers,
no child's appeal could stay their fury! These chivalrous
sons of gentle, loving mothers marched through the land of
Belgium, their nearest neighbour, leaving behind them
smoking trails of ruin, black as their own hard hearts!
What, then, is the matter with the theory? Nothing,
except that there is nothing in it—it will not work. Women
who set a low value on themselves make life hard for all
women. The German woman's ways have been ways of
pleasantness, but her paths have not been paths of peace;
and now, women everywhere are thinking of her rather
bitterly. Her peaceful, humble, patient ways have suddenly
ceased to appear virtuous in our eyes and we see now, it is
not so much a woman's duty to bring children into the world,
as to see what sort of a world she is bringing them into,
and what their contribution will be to it". |